Montevideo, Uruguay: Setting the Stage for Conversation
The first event of the Encuentro we attended in Montevideo was the presentation of a play about immigrants from the Southern Cone (Uruguay, Paraguay, Chile and Argentina) living in a European country. The play adressed the dictatorships of the 1970s that ruled the Southern Cone as well as the current massive rate of unemployment. Though the play was in Spanish, members of the audience who did not speak Spanish received a program with a detailed summary of the play in English, including parenthetical comments clarifying references that might not be familiar to North Americans.
After the play, the members of the audience, which was composed entirely of participants in the encounter, were encouraged participate in a group dance. Exchanging nervous looks and laughing self-conciously, we grasped hands and tried to follow the instructions to complete two short, traditional English dances. I believe I’ve seen 4-year-olds play Ring Around the Rosie with more grace and coordination. Those that didn’t participate in the dances themselves, took pictures and videos and laughed at…ahem…with those of us who were trying to follow the dance.
At the farewell party of the encounter, we attempted another group dance.
Reflection
After devoting a blog entry to critiquing panel discussions, I wanted to share a conference experience that worked. To begin with, both the play and the dance overcame the Language Barrier that plagued us at the World Social Forum. The actors in the play were animated enough to keep those of us who couldn’t understand everything they were saying entertained, and there was just enough light to read the Enligh-language summaries between scenes. During the dance, facial expressions conveyed, “whoops, sorry!” “Do you understand what we’re supposed to do next?” and “I feel ridiculous, but I’m enjoying myself!”
Next, at the reception following the play and dance, mingling was easy and open. The common experience of viewing the play and participating (or just watching) the dance, created a starting point for conversations. Moreover, it was virtually impossible to be worried about trying to impress someone with whom I had just repeatedly collided.
Question
What makes you feel more (or less) comfortable when talking to new people?

